Skip to main content

What a Small World, we live in


When you study genealogy, you quickly learn how small our world is. I started researching family trees around 2010, and every once in a while fun little stories or facts pop-up. It becomes quite addicting, really. 


Within this last year I learned through Gedmatch.com -that my stepdaughters and I are 12th cousins. Which we found really cool- because we all get along nicely.

I also learned from an account that I manage that his parents are 3rd cousins. They didn’t know about it, but didn’t seem surprised either. 

Then today.... I received an email from a nice lady that goes by the name Jackie, looking for information on her mother’s family tree (do to being adopted out). Well, this lady was a match to me, my kids and grandfather. Not unusual- until you look at the distance. She was a (5th - 8th cousin) to me, my mom, aunt and my grandfather - but a 4th cousin to my daughter Michelle. 

Then I realized that the person she was talking about, name Bonke - was in my daughters- fathers family tree. (Her great, great grandmother).

I at first thought! Oh wow! That means..... My grandfather and my daughters great, great grandmother on her dads side of the family might be cousins? That would means that I am a distant cousin (8th - 10th cousin) to my ex!

Luckily... that is not the case - just a very close coincidence. GED match has these wonderful comparison tools that allow you to compare chromosomes. My grandfather, mom, aunt, I and my one daughter (the half sister) match at chromosome 9. Meaning Jackie matching my grandfather has nothing to do with the Bonke tree. (It's a different connection). She matches as a 4th cousin to my daughter Michelle through chromosome 2, 4, 10 and 15. What that means is different chromosomes / different DNA.


More research "here". Need help? Click "here".

Comments

Popular posts from this blog

Fidget Blanket (Fummeldecke) Ideas

This will be my first time ever making a fidget blanket- I was so happy to have the opportunity today to gift my Oma a fidget blanket. I love her with all my heart, it just makes me so sad that not much can be done for her while struggling through dementia. She told me it was beautiful and she appeared to like it. I showed her each square and what she can do with it. The first thing she noticed was the wording; „Mit Liebe Gemacht“ which translates to „Made with love“.  Oma Hildegard is German and I wanted to make sure she would recognize things and always remember that we love her.  What is a Fidget Blanket? Fidget blankets are therapeutic small lap quilts to which different kinds of things are sewn or added on. These items offer sensory stimulation that can have a calming effect on patient who struggle with memory loss. The Fidget blankets help them stay busy avoiding boredom. It provides a means of performing repetitive behaviors that are often reassuring and calming. ...

The Low Oxalate Diet

A low-oxalate diet is a diet that is low in oxalates. Oxalate is a chemical found mostly in plant foods. A low oxalate diet can help prevent future kidney stones.  The most common type of kidney stone is calcium and oxalate. The following are low oxalate foods Meat:  All fresh and frozen meats: beef, pork, chicken, turkey; fish and seafood such as flounder, salmon, tuna, shrimp, scallops; and eggs. (Avoid cured meats.) Dairy:  Dairy products made with cow’s and goat’s milk, including buttermilk, skim milk, 1% and 2% milk, whole milk; butter; all cheeses, including cheddar, feta, farmer, goat, mozzarella, Parmesan; sour cream, whipping cream, half & half; yogurt, plain, or with low oxalate fruit. Fruits:  Apples, avocados, cherries, cranberries, bananas, melons (cantaloupe, honeydew, watermelon), seedless grapes (red and green), peaches, plums. Vegetables:  Asparagus, broccoli, cauliflower, cucumbers; iceberg and Romaine lettuc...

Healthy Recipes

Cauliflower Chili Zucchini Sliders Zucchini Sliders Links: Chicken Wrap Chicken Parmesan More Recipes More Healthy Food (Free Recipes) Facebook Health Group for Women Tried & True Recipes